Yeah, I read both three times and am still not convinced it is rape. This sounds like he fully thought you were consenting. It makes me respect a guy I dated more who let it get all hot and heavy. I said “No.” He paused and said, “Do you really mean no?” I confirmed. He kissed my face and snuggled for the ENTIRE night. Never did I think that was a big deal, but listening to stories like these make me sadly realize how uncommon this is.

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