Wow! I really wanted to read the rest of the piece, but I can’t get past the complaining about it being too small and not gold. Marriage is more than just a ring. I know people say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but showing off the perfect ring can only get you so far. SMH This was painfully superficial. I browsed the rest and it was just more complaining about a “tiny ring.” If being engaged is “embarrassing” and all you wanted was a big ring, just admit you don’t want to marry him. If his family sees this, I really TRULY hope they tell him to find someone who wants to spend the rest of her life with him, not for a “bigger, gold ring.”

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