Third article I have ever given 50 claps too, but man this had some cold truths. I remember a childhood crush (who should have stayed in my childhood memories) being almost disgusted that I did not have any kids. His response: “What’s wrong with you? You don’t have any baby daddies?”

Meanwhile he worshipped his mother, who had multiple ones. She was also in abusive relationships, and he admitted past exes always ended up violent. While some men claim to love women, there are also these problematic incidents that try to make women into the worst parts of their own heroes.

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