Oh gawd, you didn't even have to tell him what was wrong? That makes it worse. If there's something in your house that is so embarrassing that you have to explain it, then it needs to go. I don't care who owned it before. My guess if he didn't like the shelf, the couch, the fridge or anything else, he'd have no problem replacing it. When people choose inaction, that's an ACTION.

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