"In the same vein" but not spoken regularly and not thrown around by other minority groups as if it's OK. Never in my life have I heard black folks regularly call other minority groups the other slurs. I'm not about to "all lives matter" the situation. The n-word is the one that's the most problematic with minority groups, entirely too popular of a term (that I despise) and right now, I'm talking about black folks.
It's only one neighbor, but I see this issue happen far too often with other minority groups think they're "in" with black folks. I'm not feeling it. At all.
I don't really mess with Thanksgiving due to Native American deaths (but grudgingly go to family gatherings in spite of it), but you take care as well.