I would definitely recommend getting approval from the parent (Mike’s child?) if the baby’s face is showing. You’re definitely sending a message that you love babies though, so for men who make that a high priority, that’s great strategy. For men who no longer want children, you might be scaring them off though. Just my opinion. (Side note: If you’re still looking at your ex’s online dating profile, you’re not over this man. You might want to give it a little more cool time so you don’t take out Mike’s infidelity on the next man. I’m no expert. Just a little bit of you-didn’t-ask-me-but-it’s-online advice to help you in your pursuit.

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