I feel more restless sitting in one spot staring at a laptop (or phone) than I would in meetings. It still feels like a meeting. I would much rather meet up with someone in person. Just hanging out with them around other people sparks more conversation than you two just chatting it up with each other. Even with someone you’re dating, there’s that physical reach-out-and-touch part that’s missing. My vote would be in person every single time, but my love language is also “Quality Time” so that’d always get my vote.