I am going to enjoy hearing these responses. I thought it was coincidental at first, but it just keeps happening. When I heard the Coachella conversation recently, I started going straight down a checklist of men I’d dated and even old male friend s I lost touch with — and the only ones I have no beef with could do the “Waterfalls” routine, didn’t give a damn about “Scrubs” and don’t front on Beyonce. I’m not hardcore Beyhive, but this weird distaste for the woman (from some) is startling.

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