“Every color and ethnicity” doesn’t have to deal with folks just throwing out the n-word like it’s perfectly acceptable, but I get the larger point. Ironically, after I wrote this post, she did more goofy shit and we’re no longer cool. I walk by her like I’ve never met her in life and have no desire to speak further. The minute someone tells a black woman that another black woman is the “wrong” kind of black woman, I should’ve deaded the conversation altogether.

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